![]() ![]() How does this play out in a relationship? ![]() What we are attempting to do is protect our beliefs. Then, believing we are right and they are wrong, we think that we have the right to impose our beliefs on them. When people do things we don’t like, or when we’re not getting our way, we think they are wrong. ![]() We attempt to control and manipulate others because we believe that if they would change their behavior we would be happy and so would they. What is this need we have to control? Why do we feel it is necessary? All are attempts to control another’s behavior. The above description from James Redfield’s book,The Celestine Prophecy, defines four ways that people are in relationship with one another. And poor me’s make us feel guilty and responsible for them. Aloof people attract attention (and energy) to themselves by acting reserved or withdrawing. Interrogators steal it by judging and questioning. All humans, because of their upbringing, tend toward one of the four “control dramas”: intimidators steal energy from others by threat. The sixth insight states that childhood dramas block our ability to fully experience the mystical. The Celestine Prophecy’s 4 Control Dramas ![]()
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